Perceptions much.

Well, today I'm going to talk about feelings. Yeah, I am very emotional lately. Haha. Alright, my question is, should we care about what other people think of us? If your answer is a "no", I can definitely tell that you are lying. Well, maybe not that serious but you are still not sure about yourself. I mean, we all care about what and how people think of us. It's just how MUCH you really care. For instance, if someone said that you looked like a cheap lady, I'm sure you will feel upset and offended. Yes, you MAY brush that feeling off but you will still feel a bit uneasy when you recall that comment. At least I do.

My point is, humans DO care about what others think of us. That's our nature. That's just how we function as a whole. To me, it is not a sin or some imperfections to feel upset about some incident or some words that others did to you or said to you. We CAN sulk but please MOVE ON! I know a lot of friends out there who'll sulk and feel bad about themselves when something unpleasant happen to them. I was one of them. Eventually, I learnt to forget about it and move on. Treat those experiences as lessons of your life and try to improve yourself is all you could do left. In fact, it's all you should do. If the tHing has happened, there's no point sulking and thinking of it all the time. It'll only make you feel worse. You can't turn back time.

So remember, experience, feel, learn, and move on. That's what we should do. Good night! <3